Friday, November 02, 2007
Can you truly be over someone...
If you can still become jealous over them? I have said it before but it still haunts me: Sometimes you realize that you are just not over something or someone. The problem lies in having that feeling for more than one thing. Oh well, recognition of the stresser is the first step to making sure you can handle it. Even if it leads to painful text messages.
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About Me
- Cali J
- Cali-J ueber alles in der Welt. Some think that I am mean; (I call them friends), in fact I am not that mean. What I am is sarcastic and dry to the sandpaper level. I have friends that I have never said a kind word to their face, but I praise to the ends of the earth to anyone I know and will defend them to the end. That’s just how I roll! My boys know that I am down for them, my girls know that no matter what I will keep them safe (and occasionally flirt with them [If you are a female friend of mine and think I haven’t flirted with you it just means you didn’t notice, it was extremely subtle or…not yet ]). No one is safe from my sarcasm even my own parents; hence of course as a kid I spent a significant amount of time in punishment. I treat people with respect if I think they deserve it – everyone starts off with the same amount of respect from me (a lot). You don’t need to earn my respect; you have to keep my respect.
3 comments:
Same issue coming up for me after seeing an ex's myspace page. I believe you can be "over" somone, but still want to...send hurtful emails reminding said person they are a dirty cheating std-incubating skank.
PS. Im over her, but that dont mean she aint a f* _ _ _ _.
1. If you never have to see them or interact with them this can create the illusion you are over them. When you finally have an unavoidable or unplanned encounter, you could realize your not over them.
2. You may truly be over someone but still get jealous due to the being terrotorial.
From experience, relationships past or new are complicated.
some people you don't get over, and they can stop your heart twenty five years later...
But then you spend some time with them, trying to rekindle the old flame and realise that what your feeling is just a memory from the past....
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